I hate the tradition of sitting around in a big circle on Thanksgiving and saying what we're thankful for. At least this year at Steve's parent's house we didn't do it... Every time it happens, I feel dumb and don't know what to say, because it is either trivial or cliche. The worst was the year that my aunt had survived colon cancer. I mean, when the person across from you is thankful that she didn't die, what are you supposed to say? "I second the motion"?